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My observations gave me the idea, and Mr. Wigglesworth confirmed it, that husbands were more faithful in setting up memorials to their dead wives than widows to their dead husbands.  I was not ill-natured enough to fancy that women, less than men, feel so sure of their own constancy as to be willing to give a pledge of it in marble.  It is more probably the fact, that while men are able to reflect upon their lost companions as remembrances apart from themselves; women, on the other hand, are conscious that a portion of their being has gone with the departed whithersoever he has gone.  Soul clings to soul; the living dust has a sympathy with the dust of the grave; and, by the very strength of that sympathy, the wife of the dead shrinks the more sensitively from reminding the world of its existence.  The link is already strong enough; it needs no visible symbol.  And, though a shadow walks ever by her side, and the touch of a chill hand is on her boson, yet life, and perchance its natural yearnings, may still be warm within her, and inspire her with new hopes of happiness.  Then would she mark out the grave, the scent of which would be perceptible on the pillow of the second bridal?  No—but rather level its green mound with the surrounding earth, as if, when she dug up again her buried heart, the spot had ceased to be a grave.  Yet, in spite of these sentimentalities, I was prodigiously amused by an incident of which I had not the good fortune to be a witness, but which Mr. Wigglesworth related with considerable humor.  A gentlewoman of the town, receiving news of her husband's loss at sea, had bespoken a handsome slab of marble, and came daily to watch the progress of my friend's chisel.  One afternoon, when the good lady and the sculptor were in the very midst of the epitaph, which the departed spirit might have been greatly comforted to read, who should walk into the work-shop but the deceased himself, in substance as well as spirit!  He had been picked up at sea, and stood in no present need of tombstone or epitaph.

`And how,' inquired I, `did his wife bear the shock of joyful surprise?'

`Why,' said the old man, deepening the grin of a death's head, on which his chisel was just then employed, `I really felt for the poor woman; it was one of my best pieces of marble—and to be thrown away on a living man!'

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